Acceptance!

yup! after analyzing a poem entitled " Who Can I tell" i ponder..why some people cant accept other the way they are? why we need to criticize, reject or refuse them? what is the problem when we are different from the majority? we are living in the same world! we are eating the same foods
we drink water! we are created by God! we come from the same root! Adam & Eve! appearance, sexuality, races, ability should not be the reason for us to reject others!

back to the Poem, this poem talks about being gay! how a mother is afraid or maybe paranoid on what will society say bout her family which her son is a gay! she accepts her son but she worries will society accept her son too? to me..what is the problem of being gay? gays are not dangerous! they dont eat human! they are not cannibals! they live like a normal human being! in fact, sometimes they are much more successful than those so called str8 guys!..i bet! gay guys are much more emotionally stronger than others! being gay will bring you to the harsh reality! being gay means you have to face rejections! refusal! and too many cruel reality! the most sadist thing about being gay when u need to tell the true to ur family! or maybe ur family find it by themselves! how the rejection of the family towards u will affect ur life n future!

yup! being rejected is on of the bitter and painful realities to swallow! espclly when it comes from people who are close with u...gays struggle to deal with themselves who are different from majority then they to face the reality that their family also reject them! throw them away! isolate them! see how painful they are?? from where n who should they ask for the courage? motivation and guts to face the society?? cruel society!

to me..being gay is just a matter of sexuality! gays have never intended or prayed to be GAY! in fact being gay is such a heavy burden for them to shoulder! in my personal point of view, being gay, str8 or bisex is not a big deal! u r innocent as long as u r not committing something like taboo..i mean those fucking things! sexuality is all about feeling that comes within us! just like a Str8 boy who falls in love with a girl! the same goes to a boy who in love with another boy..this is unavoidable.. this is about feeling! feeling! which u cant easily turn it off!

just want to remind u that perception can kill! seriously..rejection is a great poison! just look around us..the perception and rejection of society towards gays, ex-drugs addicts, ex-convicts and many more , leads them to rebel and get back to their dark world!

try to learn to accept people the way there are..focus to the love that we have for them! they have never changed! but we are the ones who need to change!